tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post792012989660055356..comments2009-11-10T01:16:26.115-05:00SOLOMONSYDELLEhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17564768670896215900noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-30866558691836806402009-11-10T01:16:26.429-05:002009-11-10T01:16:26.429-05:00Really????????????? Not to sound inconsiderate or anything but she obviously has some self esteem issues. SMH!!!Miss Az`urehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01764949816460610773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-46776245672816750982009-11-04T23:31:10.049-05:002009-11-04T23:31:10.049-05:00waw...girl. please, let him go. leave immediately.dhianehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14648541076734206922noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-89845219491104146062009-11-01T22:15:32.992-05:002009-11-01T22:15:32.992-05:00the guy is not a good person at all,the lady should leave if she is not attracted to his moneymuyiwahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05681477440225378294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-33015744123018303702009-11-01T22:13:45.438-05:002009-11-01T22:13:45.438-05:00You know what to do. Its very obvious.<br /><br />He will not take you out because he is cheating on you. He does not want you to have any friends because he believes you will do the same to him. <br /><br />And was he taking you out before you started putting on weight? <br /><br />What are you waiting for? Haba!!! The guy has no respect for you, his mom hates you, and you dad does not like him. Wetin remain? He himself is waiting for you to leave.Mojisolahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12938432328144994981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-36006946470493193132009-11-01T02:54:13.910-05:002009-11-01T02:54:13.910-05:00Eyaaaaaaaaa. Ndo.<br /><br />That said, please, BE BRAVE. No penis is worth all that wahala. Why are you SUFFERING that way? As my dearly departed father used to tell his beautiful girls &quot;I did not bring you into this world to suffer&quot;...but he also used to say &quot;na as you take pose na im dem go snap you&quot;. People will treat you the way you treat yourself. If you keep thinking thats all you deserve, my dear young lady, then thats all you are gonna get. <br /><br />LEAVE TODAY. DON&#39;T WAIT UNTIL TMRW. it is not going to get better than this. It only gets worse. What you have now, is as good as it gets...damn...what a life!<br /><br />Delete his number, avoid him, move to mars. Do what you have to do to get rid of him.Waffarianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06039619178621668954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-28007360753436008732009-11-01T02:19:08.290-05:002009-11-01T02:19:08.290-05:00you need to leave him<br /><br />you need to be counselled<br /><br />you need to build your self esteem<br /><br />God&#39;s speedibiluvhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06357025487806887917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-5489427797851966602009-10-31T17:41:20.302-05:002009-10-31T17:41:20.302-05:00I&#39;m not sure this lady is ready to face up to the reality of her relationship. She&#39;s asking for advice on how to make her isolation pass better while completely ignoring the bigger issue of why she is sticking with a boyfriend that would treat her like that in the first place. <br /><br />I would advise her to leave him and not rush into another relationship. I think she needs to take the time to gain confidence in herself. It’s time to get rid of the idea that this kind of guy is the best she can hope for.culturesouphttp://culturesoup.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-28289529817174141302009-10-31T17:15:18.479-05:002009-10-31T17:15:18.479-05:00Oh wow! I don&#39;t see any positive thing you said about this guy...<br />Why exactly are you still in this relationship? Have you had sex with him? Do you feel like your life can&#39;t go on without him?<br />Please for the sake of your peace of mind, dump this guy fast! And take your time before you go into another relationship.<br />You need to build your self esteem, love yourself and then you can commit to loving someone else and when you love and cherish yourself, trust me, the man who you meet will cherish you.<br />A yoruba proverb says, people will only help you call your calabash what you call it...selah!Writefreakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457464940195376970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-46658871574400973442009-10-31T13:46:25.513-05:002009-10-31T13:46:25.513-05:00You should have left him long ago. I believe u know this already but u are scared to be alone. Being alone is far much better than staying with this guy or even marrying him cuz things will not get better, probably worse.<br />Who says you will be alone for ever??? other men will come along all you have to do id love yourself and develop your weak areas.Scarlethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16010391773409145494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-80391646761313164852009-10-31T12:42:44.378-05:002009-10-31T12:42:44.378-05:00dump him fast. guy has isolated u totally. now u get to depend on him alone. run fast. how can u say all was well then when he always cheats on u? what ever trash u take today, u ll be given tomorrowUzezihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11907709431101967094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-90017713457947972942009-10-31T11:02:12.562-05:002009-10-31T11:02:12.562-05:00**rest of your life like this**Dazzle!http://www.blogger.com/profile/15487257973048768577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-44760340904570331812009-10-31T10:59:37.395-05:002009-10-31T10:59:37.395-05:00Hmn...<br />I don&#39;t think you need advice...you know what you should do and you just need validation.<br />Its easier to give advice than to take it...<br />And..all the self-proclaimed strong women that are lashing out advices...hmn..I don&#39;t have words 4 you.<br /><br />Be strong girl...you don&#39;t want to live the rest of you house like this...get out now that you still have pple that are attracted to you. It will only get worse.<br />My thinking is he probably doesn&#39;t love you...he just loves the fact that he controls you. He must have ego shoes..<br />The cheating thing...it depends on you...and there is very little probability the next dude won&#39;t cheat too...<br />Then again..I don&#39;t know you..I don&#39;t know him.<br />Only you knows what is best for you..all the best.Dazzle!http://www.blogger.com/profile/15487257973048768577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-56828853619979960762009-10-31T09:15:52.966-05:002009-10-31T09:15:52.966-05:00i am thinking. insecure girl and insecure guy. infact, i don&#39;t even think the guy is insecure, he is just trying to play smart, and the girl should confront him, then live him. people even walk their dogs, not to talk of their girlfriends. why would a person refuse to go out with his girlfriendHYAWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04410209040818503094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-33058769497460195282009-10-31T01:33:13.209-05:002009-10-31T01:33:13.209-05:00This young lady eh...all the comments have said it all. Rita, Blowing Blessings and others have hit the nail on the head.<br /><br />Plain and simple<br /><br />Ol&#39; boy does not take you out because he has other women or men(these days we never know) that he is dealing with.<br /><br />Don&#39;t bring your weight into the issue, it has nothing to do with it.<br /><br />He cheated on you multiple times. Sweetie, he isn&#39;t going to stop (atleast not with you)<br /><br />He keeps you around cause he can control you. <br /><br />Chunk up this relationship as a learning experience and move on.As someone here said, you know what to do...when you are tired of being mistreated you will pack your akpati and be gone. <br /><br />Please, prefer to be alone than deal with a man that does not regard you...it is not by force biko.<br /><br />Our comment might come through harshly but this is a clean and clear situation. There is little deciphering that needs to be done. You will be ok, just leave this boy.Healthynaijahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15145093101833678123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-85104120720890336602009-10-31T00:48:46.228-05:002009-10-31T00:48:46.228-05:00Its obvious the guy is more of insecure than not wanting to take you out because you added a little bit of weight, I think at this stage you should weigh your options and see if its best for you to stay or leave the relationship. You sure do not want to end up doing something that would make you uncomfortable or cause regret for the rest of your life. As for being lonely, dont worry hun, you would get someone who loves you for who you are, and someone whom you are compatible with. I hope this helps, goodluck.Nalahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13012884526832306393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-54183801707021763412009-10-30T20:38:42.240-05:002009-10-30T20:38:42.240-05:00LOL!! Oh my days...just when i think i&#39;ve heard it all.<br /><br />THIS is the price you are willing to pay JUST BECAUSE you don&#39;t want to be alone?? I laugh!! Good luck to you oh, my dear!!Repressed Onehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07474943358222599446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-84044466105000366082009-10-30T20:14:00.137-05:002009-10-30T20:14:00.137-05:00Hmmmmmmmmm...FASCHEhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03615780806295942752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-57107069180963378562009-10-30T19:10:35.813-05:002009-10-30T19:10:35.813-05:00One word: LEAVE!Uchehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04654316223665222044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-92078946893537819522009-10-30T14:58:18.827-05:002009-10-30T14:58:18.827-05:00I think Rita and Aloted has said it all and most of the comments echo this. Get out girl...Myne Whitmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07595087387069634003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-57443697224243061822009-10-30T14:56:05.867-05:002009-10-30T14:56:05.867-05:00I&#39;m posting this after reading the first two sentences:<br /><br /><em>I met my current boyfriend 2 and a half years ago while we were in school. All was fine while in school although he cheated on me a lot.</em><br /><br />How can everything be fine if the guy was cheating on you &quot;a lot&quot;?goodnaijagirlhttp://goodnaijagirl.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-39832943139348512582009-10-30T14:25:53.940-05:002009-10-30T14:25:53.940-05:00my dear..this is d easiest TTTEC ever...<br />very simple dump d guy fast...<br />he has all d traits of a TERRIBLE boyfriend..u didnt say one good thing about him...<br />girl being alone is better than thisBBBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17310780800291336043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-52882973206270252732009-10-30T13:28:51.688-05:002009-10-30T13:28:51.688-05:00girl, i don&#39;t know how to break this nicely to you, but you need to leave that guy as soon as possible. i am even shocked that you stood this for 2 years plus. ok, lets look at the facts<br />1. he cheats on you<br />2. he doesn&#39;t believe in treating you as a partner<br />3. he is overly possesive and jealous<br />4. he doesn&#39;t let you go out or takes you out<br /><br />need i go on? trust me, it is better to be alone than to be miserable in the long run. so? after marriage, what next? life in hell? you better commot for there before he go kill you for your mamaBibihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01776391017344985000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-86639676686770611152009-10-30T12:03:38.057-05:002009-10-30T12:03:38.057-05:00On a more gentler note- Please read and re-read what Rita said. She has said it all.alotedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17293074684237435820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-77848322483840919262009-10-30T11:55:44.870-05:002009-10-30T11:55:44.870-05:00Indeed you need SOUND advice..<br /> <br /><br />You never find boyfriend yet o..or husband for that matter. You haven&#39;t said ONE positive thing in this guy&#39;s light but na your choice sha...but I don&#39;t think you are tired yet. if you really are, you will leave him.<br /><br />All da best.alotedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17293074684237435820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1344503392644402073.post-68095342210324137252009-10-30T11:48:25.143-05:002009-10-30T11:48:25.143-05:00I could say a lot. But I got nothing good to say. So I&#39;ll just keep it moving. <br /><br />Human beings!!!!Mineexclusivelyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17310665766303594898noreply@blogger.com