Monday, September 21, 2009

MY MINI ME'S A BIG GIRL!

So, its been a month of early wake ups and rides to school for The Enforcer. Yup, she's been in kindergarten for 4 weeks and she is loving it. Okay, she gets a little sad in the morning when we drop her off, but otherwise, she loves everything about kindergarten.

It was tough the first week, though. On her second day, I received a phone call from the school and spoke to my daughter who sounded hysterical! I drove over there like a maniac only to find out that she missed me and was being entertained by a few of the staff who had shared some snacks and toys with her. After a brief 2 minute talk, I sent her right back to her class. Poor thing. She was so happy to see me and the boys and thought we had come to pick her up early. What a rude surprise it must have been when I sent her back to class, lol! She hasn't cried since then, though.



Now, the homework! Oh my goodness! I am amazed at the amount and sophistication of the homework they give kids nowadays. The other day, TE had to draw non-living things (car) and living things (her baby brother,Bomboy). On another day, she had to draw what it is she does to help her parents at home - sweeping - so she drew herself standing next to a broom. I hope they don't call child protection services on me, lol! She has to determine what is over, under, to the left, to the right... I feel I need a manual to keep up with the assignments, but my mini me is sharp and loves homework. She even begs for more once she's done. I only pray she will be that excited to do work when she gets older.

Well, I got back not too long ago from a friend's wedding in California and while I wouldn't want to move out there, I have to say that Napa Valley is fantabulous! Driving from vineyard, to vineyard, drinking wine and incredible champagne at the Chandon winery is something I would repeat anyday. Just give me advance notice, loL! I went to Cali without my Husband and the kids, so it ended up being a relaxing break with good friends. Husband took his kids camping and there is even a picture of Bomboy on his potty in front of the tent. It is quite funny but I know he will skin me if I put it up here, =) One of my oldest friends, and I do mean oldest, also came out here to hang with me and the fam for about 3 days. It was wonderful. Thanks Dee!!!! We had fun, talked smack, drank way too much wine and gisted very well. Catching up with girlfriends is always wonderful. Let's all give a big cheer for our girlfriends (and gentlemen, you can give a big "ooh ah", or whatever rocks your boat, for your close buds).

Oh, and I just got in from Target, a store, and while there, why did I hear a worker talking about how she was flying to South Carolina to meet up with her lover who...wait for it... was driving out there with his wife!!!!! ESCANDALO!!! (yeah, I borrowed that from the uber dramatic Spanish telenovelas). She was talking about the thing and her fellow co-worker was talking about how the guy walks differently when she is around in the store. Mind you, the man she is having an affair with also works in the same Target store! Mehn, I just pushed my cart, which had Bomboy and Elmo strapped in (like Elmo is a real child, or something) and kept it moving. I do wish I could be in the store the day that man's wife comes in to whoop someone's behind....

Okay folks, come on by on Friday for another installment of TTTEC. I know its been a while, but I needed to take a break from it for a few weeks, but its back!  Stay blessed!

PS: I am super homesick for Naija! I want to have my mommy make me akara in the morning, eat freshly pounded iyan with efo riro and bushmeat in my father's village in Ondo State and go to a fancy restaurant in Lagos for dinner - all in one day!

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Tinu said...

am i first!

Tinu said...

awwwwwh she looks cute in her uniform!lol@sophisticated homework!!!!!!
have a fab week!

Tinu said...

oh i had to go and read evting!
I want to goo home tooooo!kai
ESCANDALO!!!!cheeeeaters!!

cici said...

awwwwwww...sorry I don't mean to sound all mushy but the enforcer sound so cute! I've never heard of a little girl excited about homework...how cute when u went to her u cause she misses u ..u are a great mother..lol I hope I will be too when the time is right!

cici said...

awwwwwww...sorry I don't mean to sound all mushy but the enforcer sound so cute! I've never heard of a little girl excited about homework...how cute when u went to her u cause she misses u ..u are a great mother..lol I hope I will be too when the time is right!

lucidlilith said...

...lol at child protective services. No worries, just tell 'em she is mommy's little helper. Now I have to add "Go to Napa Valley and taste lots of wine" to my do list.
- Rosie

NaijaBabe said...

Mummmy
How are you o?
Isee lil mummy is getting sophisticated...hmm its not easy
Before you know it, its sec sch time BE PREPARED

Myne Whitman said...

Oh wow, she looks so big and those teeth? LOL...cute.

As for the scandalous lady, she'll def get it one day. And cheers for good friends jare. Some no be am.

Take me in your pocket to naija oo.

Rene said...

escandalo!!!
I'm so home sick.

Mojisola said...

Ayah, but I must confess she seems to be taking it better than you, lol.

PLEASE take me with you, now you got me home sick. I miss that mai kosai like mad and that thing we mix like semo and insist on calling iyan no be am at all. If I would not be arrested for disturbing the peace, I'd have gotten myself a mortar and pestle by now.

Dee said...

Folks, seriously Solo is a SUPER SUPER MUM…she was one floor below and she knew which child is illegally moving around upstairs!!! I was royally stunned. Kudos to you hon, you truly are a SUPER-MUM!!!

I’m sooooo glad I came out.

TE just looks so fab in that pic…! I fear the homework sha, nawa!

LOL @ the Target Store

p.s. Now I’m going to bed dreaming about Efo riro and Bush meat :(

Waffarian said...

Ndo...just make the food yourself, you'll feel better. I made egusi yesterday cos I was feeling so homesick! I am afraid I have nothing to say about the homework cos I am one of those that hand out sophisticated homeworks...hehehehehehehe ndo...

Marin said...

Aaaww. She looks so big! Lol at sending her right back to class - thats such a Nigerian mom thing to do.

Isn't it nice to hang out with girlfriends, and have a bit of time to yourself?

I feel you on missing home....

t said...

Your blog rocks. Haven't been here in so long.

Phoenix said...

Your daughter looks adorable, almost makes me want to have one.
Hope ur good!!!
Much luv!

misspumping said...

It will be much much easier when i get one

very random comment but your blog name just got me thinking how happy my family will be when i get one (alas i remember i ought to get married first)

NoLimit said...

Please don't make me miss Naija too!!!
I need a super duper miracle to get me my December ticket!!!lol
Mini Me is a big gal now...and she loves homework at that? gosh awesome kiddo!
Have you noticed how everything has become acceptable? including....yeah Escandolo indeed!!!lol

Adaeze said...

Ive missed ur blog Solomonsydelle!
I am missing Nigeria already even though I just got back 2 months ago. You should check out my blog abotu what happened while I was there.
On another note, I can totally relate to ur daughter. Still remember the days I did that when my dad left me off. Glad shes doing ebtter now though. I've been soooo busy since I got back but hope to keep on returning here... I want to send u an email too regarding something else..hope the family and u are all fine!

Enkay said...

I'd say you have it easy with your girl!She doesn't throw tantrums and she loves homework, great!

Talk about SCANDAL!
I hope someone won't be shooting someone else!

bArOquE said...

interesting read...mini you, school, her loving homework, wine tasting, champagne drinking, old friends, affairs/pre-scandals info, Ondo state, akara and pounded yam...etc

pink-satin said...

Pls can we see that picture of bomboy ?

leggy said...

lol...gosh i love your blog!!
and yay!!for girlfriends...you really cant do without them!!
and the person dating a married man...ha ha ha..i always pity women like this and the way they proudly talk about it like they deserve a medal for sleeping with a man is already married.

LP said...

Reminds me of when i changed from Kindergarten to Primary school...I hated it and cried, and sometimes, my mum would pity me and drop off the twins and take me to work with her...lol...guess she couldn't resist after looking into my innocent eyes. Congrats Enforcer!!!

isha said...

I saw 'akara', and forgot everything else I'd read.

I'm sorry lemme go and refresh my memory.

Remi, United Kingdom said...

lol.. she sure sounds like a sophisticated lady alright! lol.

I'm home sick too.. I want 'road side, fried plantain with yam' - somehow it does not taste the same when it is done indoors! lol...

Have a great weekend :-) x